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Contacting Our Interims

This post was last updated on January 18, 2024


From Stephanie Yancy:

Some of you have asked how to reach me. You can reach me via email through the link at the bottom of this blog post and via the staff page of the website. You may also call me on the office phone: 919-846-8338. If you leave a general message, Bradley will see that I get it. If your message is confidential please press 1 when you get to the welcome message, which will take you to my private extension. You may also call my cell phone: 410-971-8111. Please don’t hesitate to call if you need me.

When will I be in the office? My plan is to be in the office on Monday mornings and all day on Wednesdays and Thursdays. There will be times when I will have meetings outside of the office on one of those days, so you might want to call or email to make sure I’m in before making the trip. I’m also open to making appointments outside of my office hours; just call or email me to set something up. On Tuesdays I work from home; again, feel free to email or call me if you need me. Fridays are my sabbath, meaning please don’t call or expect an email response from me unless there is a pastoral emergency.

When should you call me? Always call if there is a pastoral emergency such as a hospitalization or death. At other times, if you need a quick response to a question and don’t want to wait for me to see your email, feel free to call or text me. As a general rule, call me whenever you would have called Stephanie Allen.

How should you address me? Adults may call me “Stephanie” or “Rev. Stephanie” — I don’t have a preference. I think it’s helpful for children to call me “Rev. Stephanie”.

The bottom line: I want to be accessible. I’d love to hear from you. If I haven’t answered your questions about how to reach me in this post please let me know – by email, text or phone call. Thanks!

— (The Rev.) Stephanie Yancy


From Cathy Deats:

As lead of our Interim Rector team, The Rev. Stephanie Yancy has clearly outlined ways to reach out to her.

Here are the ways to reach me:

You can email me at the link below.

You can usually find me in the office on Wednesdays from 9:30 am to 2:30 pm.  For appointments, I can be available at other weekday times.

You can call or text me at 908-500-2463.  

Since my role is quarter time, you will see me at church most but not all Sundays. Mondays and Fridays are my sabbath, and both can be interrupted only by pastoral emergencies.

I prefer to be addressed as “Cathy”, but if anyone prefers a more formal address, “Dr. Deats” is the way to go.

Stephanie and I share a bottom line:  We want to be accessible.

— (The Rev. Dr.) Cathy Deats


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Clergy Transition 2023 From the Vestry

December 29 Transition Update

This is your Vestry’s final update for 2023 and my last as your Senior Warden. Beginning January 1, George Douglas will be Nativity’s Senior Warden, and Dave McKinnon the Junior Warden. I know I speak for Bill Sena, the 2022–23 Junior Warden, and Anne Krouse, the other Vestry member rotating off the end of this year, when I say what a privilege it has been to serve you and the Nativity community as wardens and vestry members. Thank you for your support and trust in us.

The Vestry would also like to extend a huge thank you to our wonderful staff who have worked extraordinarily hard since October 29. We are especially grateful for their providing the beautiful services throughout the week leading up to Christmas — starting with the Service of Lament and ending with the Advent IV Service and three Christmas Eve services on December 24. The choir as usually, set the atmosphere for Christmas Eve, and the amazing duet by Helen Moses and Jo-Mari Burgess was breath-taking. 

January 1 also marks the beginning of The Rev. Stephanie Yancy and The Rev. Dr. Cathy Deats’ service as Co-interim Rectors. We are in good hands with the leadership of the Vestry and of these two wonderful and dedicated priests. In their letter to the Vestry, they stated that Rev. Stephanie will work 3/4 time and Rev. Cathy 1/4 time. Stephanie will be in the office at least two days during the week and most Sundays; Cathy will be in the office one day per week and preach one Sunday a month. Rev. Stephanie will cover the other Sundays, along with Rev. Phillip. Others within the congregation will still have opportunities to preach, as has been our practice. Rev. Stephanie plans to attend all vestry meetings, pastoral support meetings, and staff meetings, while Rev. Cathy plans to attend all staff meetings and pastoral support meetings. Both will make themselves available for other meetings and any pastoral needs of the congregation.

A very important part of their ministry is to lead us through the tasks recommended for congregations experiencing a change in leadership. Those tasks include exploring our history and its effect on who we are today, creating opportunities for new leadership within the congregation, and exploring possible new directions in ministry. The goal is to prepare the Nativity congregation to welcome a new Rector and to thrive as we work alongside the person God is preparing to lead us.

— Beth Crow, Senior Warden

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Adult Formation

New Book Study: The Wisdom Way of Knowing

Reverend Nancy Titus and Jeremy Clos will offer a book study of Cynthia Bourgeault’s The Wisdom Way of Knowing: Reclaiming an Ancient Tradition to Awaken the Heart beginning on January 24. The book is available through major retailers for about $20. The study will meet on Wednesday evenings from 7 to 8 pm via Zoom and continue through one chapter a week for eight weeks. Sign up here to receive the Zoom links.

“The Wisdom Way of Knowing” by Cynthia Bourgeault is a guide to spiritual awakening, blending teachings from ancient Christian mysticism with contemporary insights. Bourgeault delves into the concept of “apophatic knowing,” emphasizing a form of understanding that transcends rational thought, inviting readers to explore deeper dimensions of consciousness and connection with the divine. Her work illuminates the transformative power of inner wisdom, offering practical insights and practices to cultivate a more profound spiritual awareness in everyday life.

Cynthia Bourgeault has studied and taught in a number of Benedictine monasteries in the United States and Canada. An Episcopal priest, she is well known as a retreat and conference leader, teacher of prayer, and writer on the spiritual life. She is the author of a number of books, including Mystical Hope.

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Clergy Transition 2023 From the Vestry

December 22 Transition Update

Our message this week comes from our Co-Interim Rectors, The Rev. Stephanie Yancy and Dr. Rev. Cathy Deats. The Vestry would like to wish each and everyone of you and your families a very Merry Christmas!


Dear Friends at Nativity,

I am so pleased that your vestry has called The Rev. Dr. Cathy Deats and me to be your co-interim rectors! I loved my time with you a year ago when Stephanie Allen was on sabbatical. I am looking forward to being with you again. As I told the vestry, as an interim rector my responsibilities will be somewhat expanded from my responsibilities as your supply priest. In addition to leading you spiritually and providing pastoral care, as interim rectors it will be Cathy’s responsibility and mine to work alongside you as together we prepare the way for your next rector to be successful. (Shades of John the Baptist!) I don’t know exactly what preparing the way will look like for you. I do know that it will start with a lot of just listening to each other. Cathy and I will be listening for your hopes, your dreams, your fears, and anything else you want to share. I trust the Holy Spirit to be with us in those conversations, and to lead us in the right way.

Cathy will say more about some specific tasks of interim rectors. The last thing that I want to say is that we will not be a part of the search committee or involved in any way in the search for your next rector. The vestry and the search committee will be the ones to keep you updated on the search as we go forward. Our official start date is January 1, however before she left Stephanie Allen had asked me to be your supply priest for the morning of Advent 4, this coming Sunday. So I’ll see you then!

Blessings always,
Stephanie


Dear saints of Nativity,

I am very excited to be joining you on your next journey, called “interim” to remind us that we are in an in-between time. As The Rev. Stephanie Yancy pointed out, the main goal of the interim period is to prepare you for your future and enable you to discern the best match for you and your future Rector.

The Alban Institute identified five “developmental tasks” that can enable a parish to be ready to accept a new rector and move forward constructively. These are: 1. Coming to terms with [the parish’s] history. 2. Discovering a new identity. 3. Shifts of power [in parish leadership]. 4. Re-thinking denominational linkage. 5. Commitments to new leadership and a new future. As with any model of process, these steps are not linear and often overlap or recycle. The bottom line is that we are entering a time of remembering, visioning, exploring, and re-thinking ministry for the body of Christ in Raleigh known as Church of the Nativity.

Stephanie and I are here to support you, to comfort you, and to challenge you. We are prepared to lead, and you will find us to be both gentle and direct leaders. You can count on our honesty, our skill, and most of all, our care.

O Spirit of G-d, be present in our journeys.
Be present in our days to come.
Be present in our works and in our words and in our hearts.
Be present in the bonds of our community, Lord Christ.
Be ever at work among us and through us.
Amen.

Peace,
Cathy

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From the Clergy

Farewell to Helen

Sunday, December 31 will be Helen Moses’ last official day at Nativity. We have so loved having her as our Priest Intern, and have appreciated all the many ways that she has been involved in the life of our parish: she has preached sermons, taught classes, she will be singing in some of our Christmas and Advent services, and much, much more. We will miss her greatly! We wish her all the best as she continues in her discernment process.

Helen has this to say:

Dear Nativity Family,

I can hardly believe our season together is coming to an end on December 31st. It has been an honor and a true joy to serve as your Priest Intern for the past six months. Thank you for your generous hospitality from the very beginning of my internship. I have felt welcomed, embraced, encouraged, and loved. It has been wonderful to learn from you and to get to know many of you as well. 

My experience with you at Nativity has been a valuable and crucial step in my discernment path, and serving you has brought me closer to God. I thank you for that. You have helped me grow in faith and gain new insights about what it means to follow God’s call. Wherever God calls me from here, I will always take a part of you with me. 

Know that I will keep Nativity in my prayers, especially in this time of transition. I believe God has someone very special in mind to be your next rector, and that person will be blessed to serve this congregation when the time is right.

Thank you again for everything. Though I am excited about what is yet to come in my journey, and am ready to move to the next step, I will miss you all very much.

Love,
Helen

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Clergy Transition 2023 From the Vestry

December 15 Transition Update

It is with great joy that we, the Vestry of Church of the Nativity, announce that we have called our Interim Priests. Yes, you read that correctly: priests. 

The Rev. Stephanie Yancy and The Rev. Dr. Cathy Deats will share the Interim position, with Stephanie serving ¾ time and Cathy ¼ time. They will begin the first of the new year. More details about their shared position will come next week.

In addition to this great news, the Vestry has selected the members for our Search Committee. We had a large number of very qualified individuals put their names forward for this role, and we are deeply thankful for each and every one of them for their service to Nativity. The Search Committee members are: 

  • Morghan Bosch
  • Beth Crow (Chairperson)
  • Matt Dutton
  • Susan Edwards
  • Robert Joines
  • Anne Krouse
  • Allison Martin
  • Sarah O’Connor
  • Emily Phillips. 

This group will be meeting with Catherine Massey, Canon to the Bishop, in the first part of January to begin their work. All information about this transitional period will continue to come from the Vestry.

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From the Vestry

New Vestry Profile: Sam Wesonga

I was born and raised in Uganda, Africa as the only child of an Anglican Priest who later became Bishop. I attended Indiana University, Bloomington for my undergraduate degree and medical school in Indianapolis. I completed my residence in Family Medicine in Kalamazoo, MI. That is where I met my wife Tracey.

We have been married for 34 years and have 2 wonderful children. Erika who lives in Baltimore, and Jeremy.

I started a private practice in Baltimore, Maryland and we later moved to Rocky Mount, NC where, I practiced for 20 years. We moved to Wake Forest almost ten years ago. I currently practice with WakeMed at the Brier Creek location.

Prior to joining Church of the Nativity, we attended St. Andrew’s Episcopal in Rocky Mount. We have enjoyed our time here at the Nativity and have thrived spiritually.

I have served as an usher here at the Nativity and have participated in the ground works activities. I have also been part of the church Discernment committee for those seeking priesthood. I look forward to serving more.

— Sam Wesonga

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Outreach

Week of Giving 2023: A Huge Success

Thanks to you, members of Nativity, our annual Week of Giving and Day of Giving was — once again — a wonderful success. Because of your generous hearts, the 15 nonprofit ministries that participated received a grand total of over $22,900. That is simply outstanding. Your money supports local ministries such as Inter-Faith Food Shuttle, the Episcopal Campus Ministry, the Farm Workers Ministry, Habitat for Humanity of Wake County, Interfaith Power and Light, Peggy Wade’s Angel Tree, RAFI-CSA, Warmth for Wake, and Leesville Pride Packs. It also supports worldwide efforts such as Haiti Reforestation Partnership , Abukloi, Uganda Orphans Education Fund, Rise Against Hunger, and Episcopal Relief and Development. You also supported Nativity’s NAACP Scholarship Fund. Because of you, many people will have food to eat, adequate housing, job opportunities, and educational opportunities. 

We would like to offer a special thank you to our dedicated Outreach Team, all those who helped set up and clean up for the Day of Giving, and all who contributed treats for our refreshment table. Thank you to so many of our church members who represented these ministries during the Day of Giving and for their help in providing the video and write ups needed for the online portion. Lillis and Beth would also like to give a huge shout out to Alfred Christensen who compiled the materials on the 15 ministries and created a beautiful website for the Week of Giving.

Thank you all so much for helping make this world a brighter place.

— Lillis Ward

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Clergy Transition 2023 From the Vestry

December 8 Transition Update

The Vestry is in the final stage of selecting our Interim Rector and will make an announcement as soon as all legal procedures are completed. As stated last week, the Vestry will meet on December 12 to approve the selection of Search Committee members; that list will be shared once all parties have accepted their nominations.

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From the Vestry

New Vestry Profile: Yvette Smith

Yvette is a lifelong Episcopalian, who grew up in Long Island, NY. She attended St. Philip’s Episcopal Church in Harlem, where her father has been serving as the Deacon for over 25 years. From an early age, Yvette has been involved in the church as a Junior Daughter of King and a Daughter of King; on most Sundays she could be found serving as an acolyte, singing in the youth choir, and attending youth group. Church was always an important part of her life growing up, so it was important for her to find a church community where her daughter could have the same opportunity to learn and grow in faith. 

Yvette, her husband Thomas, and daughter Morgan moved to Raleigh from New York in 2012. Shortly after moving here they set out to find a church home and found Church of the Nativity. At Nativity, Yvette serves as a Lay Eucharist Minister, and also served on the Capital Campaign Committee. Recently, her daughter Morgan started serving as an acolyte, and currently participates in Youth Formation.

 Outside of church, Yvette is currently the Family Court Administrator for Wake County, where she supervises the Judicial Support Staff for the current sitting judges in Wake County District Courts’ Family Court Program. Yvette has worked in the court system for over 21 years: in Bronx Supreme Court in NY, as a Domestic Violence Coordinator for 11 years, and now here in Raleigh for the last 10 years working for Family Court Program as a Court Coordinator, and now as the Family Court Administrator. 

Yvette is excited to serve Church of the Nativity as a vestry member, and looks forward to what this journey will bring.