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Clergy Transition 2023 From the Vestry

February 16 Transition Update

The Search Committee met on February 7, 2024 to begin their work on the Parish Portfolio. During the preparation process, the committee thought it would be fun to share word clouds generated from the questions posed to the congregation during the February 4 congregational meeting. The word cloud below represents the most popular words Nativity used to answer the question: Remember a moment that was a high point, when you felt Nativity was doing God’s work and fulfilling its mission… What was happening? 

Next Steps: 

  • The Search Committee will complete the Parish Portfolio.  
  • The Search Committee will present the Parish Portfolio to the Vestry for review and approval. The goal date for completion and approval is mid-March 2024. 
  • The Parish Portfolio will be posted to the Diocese’s website and Nativity’s website. The goal is to have the portfolio posted in April 2024. 

Communication 

Need more details about the search process? More information can be found on Nativity’s Clergy Transition Page.  Have a question for the Search Committee? Please ask it here

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Glad Tidings Lent Q&A

Lent Q&A 2024: Week 1

Following the success of last year’s Episcopal 101 offering, we are holding a similar Q&A series this Lent, where you can ask all of your lingering questions regarding being an Episcopalian, our church practice, etc. To ask a question, fill out this Google Form, and you will receive a response via a blog post or short video. 

This week’s answer comes from Jeremy Clos, Lay Associate for Christian Formation.


Why do we sometimes drop the filioque from the Creed?

The Episcopal Church offers several forms for the celebration of the Holy Eucharist. At Nativity, we predominantly use the four forms for Rite II found within The Book of Common Prayer. Additionally, there are four “contemporary” language options in the supplemental materials called Enriching Our Worship, which are also authorized liturgies for Episcopal worship. While all versions in The Book of Common Prayer include a version of the Nicene Creed containing the filioque (or the phrase “and the Son” when describing the Holy Spirit), the forms for Holy Eucharist in Enriching Our Worship include a version of the Nicene Creed that omits the filioque. We used one of these forms from September through November last fall.

It might be surprising to learn that the clause “and the Son” was not present in the original form of the Nicene Creed, established at the First Council of Nicaea in 325 AD and further clarified at the First Council of Constantinople in 381 AD. The original Nicene Creed affirmed that the Holy Spirit proceeds from the Father (in Greek, “ek tou Patros ekporeuomenon”). However, in the Latin-speaking West, particularly in the Frankish territories, the phrase “and the Son” was later added to the Creed to combat Arianism (which challenged the full divinity of Christ) and to emphasize the full deity of all three persons within the Holy Trinity. While the filioque clause became widely accepted in the Western Church, the Eastern Orthodox Church did not accept this addition, maintaining the original form of the Creed as affirmed by the ecumenical councils.

The filioque controversy significantly contributed to the gradual estrangement between the Eastern and Western Churches, leading to the Great Schism of 1054, which resulted in the formal division between the Eastern Orthodox Church and the Roman Catholic Church. The controversy remains a point of contention and theological dialogue between the two traditions today, as efforts continue toward ecumenical reconciliation and understanding.

In the Episcopal Church, the decision to offer an authorized version of the Nicene Creed without the filioque clause reflects a commitment to ecumenical dialogue and understanding with Eastern Orthodox and other Christian traditions. By sometimes using the Nicene Creed without the filioque, The Episcopal Church seeks to promote unity and respect for diverse theological perspectives within the broader Christian community.

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Children and Youth

Fire and Freedom: Summer Youth Pilgrimage 

by Jeremy Clos


I am thrilled to extend an invitation to all high school students to join our upcoming Youth Pilgrimage to Wilmington, NC, scheduled for June. This pilgrimage promises to be a transformative journey of discovery, camaraderie, and spiritual enrichment. We eagerly anticipate your participation and look forward to embarking on this meaningful adventure together.

Important Dates to Note:

  • Parent and Youth Information Meeting: Sunday, February 25, 7 pm.
  • Pilgrimage Dates: Thursday, June 13 to Tuesday, June 18.

Key Trip Information:

  • Departure and Return: We will depart from Raleigh on the morning of Thursday, June 13, and return in the early afternoon of Tuesday, June 18.
  • Cost: $825, covering travel, meals, lodging, guides, and tours. Additional funds are recommended for lunch on travel days, snacks, and souvenirs. Scholarships are available.
  • Registration: Complete the registration via Google Form before March 15.
  • Deposit Due: $275 by March 15 (non-refundable after April 15).
    • Remaining Balance: $550 by April 15.
    • Payment Options: Payment can be made via check, PayPal, or VenMo, ensuring the memo includes “Wilmington trip” and the youth’s name.

Trip Highlights:

Our Youth Pilgrimage aims to foster spiritual growth, community building, and cultural exploration. Here’s a glimpse of what to expect:

  • Location: We will be based at Belk Hall, University of North Carolina Wilmington, utilizing campus as our lodging and dining hub.
  • Activities: The itinerary includes film screenings, historical tours, discussions, and worship, with a focus on the historic Coup of 1898 and its implications.
  • Service Work: Two mornings will be dedicated to community service, addressing local issues like homelessness with organizations such as Eden Village.
  • Recreation: Enjoy leisure time at Wilmington’s picturesque beaches, including Wrightsville and Fort Fisher, along with activities like fishing and riverboat cruises.
  • Culmination: The journey concludes with a celebratory dinner and closing worship before our return to Raleigh on Tuesday.

Pre-Trip Preparation:

To enhance the experience, youth are encouraged to participate in weekly Sunday evening gatherings and monthly activities throughout the spring, fostering camaraderie and community bonds. There will also be a pre-trip meeting on Sunday, June 2 at 7 pm for all the pilgrims. This will also be an opportunity for parents to do all the necessary paperwork.

Fundraising and Financial Assistance:

In lieu of fundraising events, scholarships, and payment plans are available to ensure financial accessibility. For inquiries, please approach Jeremy Clos, and rest assured, all requests will be handled with confidentiality.

Additional Inquiries:

For further details, an information session is scheduled for Sunday, February 25, at 7 pm in Room 202 of Curry Hall. Alternatively, feel free to reach out to Jeremy Clos, Lay Associate for Christian Formation, for personalized assistance. Email Jeremy Clos

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Clergy Transition 2023 From the Vestry

February 9 Transition Update

On Sunday, February 4, Nativity had a productive and well-attended congregational meeting to collect important and needed information for the preparation of our Parish Portfolio. We also heard from many who were unable to attend via a questionnaire that was sent out after the meeting concluded. The Search Committee is so grateful to all who participated in this process. We very much value your input! 

The Search Committee collected and compiled all the responses generated from the meeting and the questionnaire. We then met on Wednesday, February 7, to review the data received and begin preparing the Parish Portfolio.  

Next Steps: 

  • The Search Committee will complete the Parish Portfolio.  
  • The Search Committee will present the Parish Portfolio to the Vestry for review and approval. The goal date for completion and approval is mid-March 2024. 
  • The Parish Portfolio will be posted to the Diocese’s website and Nativity’s website. The goal is to have the portfolio posted in April 2024. 

If you have any questions, please feel free to fill out this form.

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Outreach

2024 Habitat EpiscoBuild Kickoff

by Joe Ward


February 24 is the kickoff day for the 2024 Habitat for Humanity Episcopal Build. On Saturday, February 24, volunteers from the Episcopal churches will join forces to assemble walls for two homes and stand walls on one house. Volunteers are needed for either the 8;30 wall build for the first house or 10:30 wall build for the second house. Lunch will be provided. You can register online

After the wall build, volunteers are needed on Saturdays throughout the building process. Each church takes responsibility for a Saturday to provide volunteers and lunch. Our assigned Saturday is April 13. We will partner with two other churches that day, and we need 15 volunteers from Nativity. Please mark your calendar and join us. No special skills are necessary and it is a great experience. More information will be forthcoming.

If you have any questions, please contact Joe Ward. Email Joe Ward

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Glad Tidings

Foyer Groups at Nativity

by Ailsa Tessier


We know it as Foyer at Nativity, but where did this name come from? We understand that the idea of foyer gatherings began after the bombing of Coventry Cathedral during World War II. The cathedral’s Provost made a commitment to not seek revenge, but to strive for forgiveness and reconciliation with those responsible. Out of that commitment came community meetings, where people worked together to find common ground. There is much more to the history, if you wish to know more. 

Many church communities have their own version of Foyer — they call it dinner group, or supper club, or something similar. Here’s how we do it at Nativity. Signing up means you’d be part of a group of about six people (adults only), assembled to try and mix new parishioners with others. You meet in each other’s homes about once a month for a three-month cycle. Each couple/single takes a turn at hosting a meal in the style of your own household. Each group decides how they’d like to get together — usually it’s in someone’s home, but many groups have met at a restaurant, or ordered takeout. We’ve been in Foyer groups where the dinner was appetizers and dessert; others have served pizza or soup, or ribs on the grill. The whole idea is simply to get together and get to know some of your fellow parishioners. 

It couldn’t be easier! Some of us have been in Foyer groups at Nativity for 30 years — it’s the best way to get to know your fellow parishioners and make new friends. Sign up, give it a try, and if you have any questions about Foyer, get in touch with me.

Email Ailsa Tessier

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Glad Tidings

Farewell from Cuyler O’Connor

Cuyler O’Connor was ordained to the Sacred Order of Deacons on January 27, 2024. With that ordination comes a move for Cuyler to a different parish, as he is called to serve where needed. This is a bittersweet moment for Nativity, as we celebrate his journey but also know that we will miss him. Cuyler shares the following note:

When I started this diaconal process, I never thought about the process of discernment. We all do it, but we may not realize it. Through discernment, I have found that to be a deacon truly is my calling, but it is not about “me” it is about “we.”  Many things remind me of the power of “we.” Certainly, for my spiritual formation, Nativity is a key element or building block around this discernment process. My spiritual director once told me, “Cuyler, there is always more,” and this is so true. There is always more in the relationships “we” develop, the community “we” serve, and how “we” love and embrace God. I will move to my next step in this journey. Things sometimes unfold where “we” see it was there all along. “We” are just flawed humans and do not notice, but that is the beauty and grace of it all.

In Japan there is a traditional method of breaking pottery and repairing the broken joints with gold or silver powder (urushi) and this method is called kintsugi. The pottery continues to be used and is quite stunning in appearance. I wonder if maybe “we” all must break ourselves to find something lovely and new.

My new placement and journey will be at La Iglesia El Buen Pastor in Durham. After discernment with the Bishops and meeting with Father Medina, this seems like a great fit.  I know it will come with challenges but Nativity has prepared me well.

I want to thank everyone at Nativity for all the times we have had together in fellowship and more importantly in the space of love from Jesus. If there is one thing I have learned going through this process, it is not to take myself so seriously, have a sense of humor, and let go. Whenever I tell people of my home church faith family I do it with a “robust” NATIVITY and a smile. I see Jesucristo (Jesus Chist) in all of you, thanks for raising me in such a loving community.

We are one in whom Christ dwells and delights. We live in the strong and unshakable kingdom of God. The kingdom is not in trouble, and neither are we.

Blessings my friends.

Love, 
Deacon Cuyler+

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Clergy Transition 2023 From the Vestry

January 26 Transition Update

The Search Committee met with Canon Catherine Massey of the Diocese on January 18 to discuss the next steps in the transition process. The immediate next step — and perhaps the most important is determining what qualities our parishioners would like to see in our new Rector. We would like to ask for your help by attending a special congregational meeting at Nativity at 10:30 am on February 4. Please note we will have only one service that day at 9 am with the congregational meeting being held directly after the service in Corlett Hall.  

The meeting will be facilitated by Canon Massey who is walking alongside Nativity in our search process. We will use the information from our meeting to complete a Parish Portfolio which is a picture of ourselves, what we hope to become, and most importantly the kind of rector we will call. Once completed, the Parish Portfolio will be made available to interested rectors on the Diocese’s website and also will be posted on Nativity’s website.   

We encourage everyone to attend this meeting if they are able. However, if you are unable to attend, we will send out a survey immediately following with the same questions to ensure everyone has an opportunity to have their voices heard. This survey can also be used by attending parishioners who may have additional thoughts they wish to share after the meeting concludes.  

Please RSVP using this Google Form to let us know if you will be coming to the congregational meeting. Bagels and drinks will be provided. 

Please know that the Search Committee very much values and needs your input to successfully complete the search. Please help us by attending this important meeting and/or by completing the online survey that will be sent immediately following. Thank you in advance for being part of this exciting time at Nativity!  

Next Steps: 

  • The Search Committee will write and complete the Parish Portfolio. Our goal date for completion is mid-March, 2024. 
  • The Parish Portfolio will be posted to the Diocese’s website and Nativity’s website. Our goal is to have the portfolio posted in April, 2024. 
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Glad Tidings

A Response to the Pastoral Letter

by Chuck Till


The first Bishop of the newly formed Diocese of North Carolina, John Stark Ravenscroft – the namesake of Ravenscroft School in Raleigh – was an enslaver. After he became a member of the clergy, he emancipated many of his enslaved persons but not all. The second Bishop of the Diocese, Levi Stillman Ives, defended the institution of slavery even as he encouraged his white parishioners to attend to the spiritual needs of their enslaved persons. The original benefactor of Ravenscroft School, Josiah Watson, was a member of Christ Church in downtown Raleigh and owned a plantation of 10,000 acres in Wake and Johnston Counties. His plantation was staffed by at least 135 enslaved persons. 

I hope you are not surprised by these facts, which are not isolated instances. Far more than uncomfortable truths, they are an indication of how thoroughly the practice of slavery permeated this state. As the Rev. Dr. Brooks Graebner, the Historiographer of our Diocese, has written, “The colonial Anglican Church was identified with ruling elites, and the Episcopal Church continued to reflect economic and social privilege. In 1860, more than 50 percent of North Carolina’s largest slaveholders were Episcopalians, although in the state as a whole there were 50 times more Baptists and five times as many Presbyterians.”

At the time of the Civil War, our Diocese consisted of about 40 congregations. One-third of them, such as Christ Church, are in the current territory of our Diocese. The remaining churches are now in the Diocese of East Carolina or the Diocese of Western North Carolina. These church buildings and their operation were financed mainly by parishioners in the upper strata of southern society.  Where did their money come from? Particularly from Greensboro eastward to the coast, some were owners of large plantations that were financially and operationally dependent on the labor of enslaved persons. Many other parishioners were enriched by their direct dealings with enslavers: merchants, suppliers, shippers, etc.

In short, the footprints of slavery are all over our Diocese. Just like you should think of the consequences of colonialism every time you walk the beautiful streets of London or Paris, you should think of the consequences of slavery every time you enter one of our splendid older Episcopal churches. The brutal exploitation and repression of African-Americans in North Carolina did not end in 1865, of course. It continued almost unabated for decades – even within the church – and persists to this day.   

What does this mean to a comparatively new church like Nativity? Unlike some churches in the Diocese, there are no historic plaques or stained glass in our worship space to honor contributors whose wealth is tainted by slavery. Nor does Nativity have its own history of segregation to contend with. But we are not off the hook. In the immediate vicinity of Nativity in northwest Wake County, there are many indications of a large African-American population. The original Jeffrey’s Grove School on Creedmoor Road, since replaced, was built for African-American children during segregation. The Masonic lodge at the northwest corner of Strickland and Ray Roads is historically African-American. The Chavis family once owned much of the land along Ray Road south of Nativity (and still owns some of it).

Was Nativity’s 7 acres of land ever worked by enslaved persons? Was it a meeting site for the Ku Klux Klan? Is the start-up funding that Nativity received in its early years from other Episcopal churches in the area traceable to tainted sources? I don’t know the answers to these questions, but they are fair questions to pose. And even if the answers are no, we are part of a Diocese that has some awful history. This is the work that our Bishops have called us to continue in their recent pastoral letter.

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Glad Tidings

It’s Time to Vote!

by Bridget Knapp


Wait a minute! I thought the election wasn’t until November 5? Yes, but that’s the general election. There’s lots to do before then, like vote in the primary election on March 5, where we decide which candidates we should vote for in the general election. (Take a look at the election calendar).

In the primary election, eligible voters affiliated with any political party are allowed to vote for candidates on their party’s ballot. The deadline to register to vote is on February 9. To learn more about how to register online or in-person at the DMV or by mail, visit the NC State Board of Elections website. To see if you are registered and to view your sample ballot, use the Voter Search Tool. Make sure that your name, address, and party affiliation are correct. If not, you must update it by mail or online before February 9. Unlike in-person early voting, you must be registered to vote in order to vote in-person on Election Day. 

In-person early voting starts on February 15. You must show a photo ID to vote. Acceptable forms of photo ID (unexpired or expired for one year or less) include: 

  • a North Carolina driver’s license
  • a U.S. passport or U.S. passport card
  • a state ID from the DMV (also called a non-operator ID)
  • a North Carolina Voter Photo ID card (get it for free by visiting the NCBSE website)
  • a college or university student ID that has been approved by the State Board of Elections
  • an employee ID from a state or local government or charter school that has been approved by the State Board of Elections

Also, anyone who is 65 or older may use an expired photo ID if it was unexpired on their 65th birthday. More information is available on the NCBSE website.

If you have any questions, feel free to email me. Email Bridget Knapp